DSAM Day 31: Lilyisms

21 Lilyisms:

1. Have faith that God know what He is doing (even if you aren’t so sure)

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2. Be your own advocate.

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3. Everyone needs someone to cuddle with.

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4. Whenever you can, choose happiness over sorrow.

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5. Try not to be too sensitive, most people don’t mean to offend.

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6. Naps are better with a furry friend.

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7. Be bold, be a rock n roll princess.

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8. Don’t be afraid to rediscover the “old ways” of doing things, sometimes they are better.

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9. Peace is found when you can find comfort wherever you are.

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10. Explore your inner faye, it’s worth it.

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11. When in doubt, pinky out!

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12. Don’t be afraid to make a mess- sometimes that’s the best part!

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13. Always have an escape plan.

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14. Dare to stand up and feel the wind in your face.

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15. All food tastes better when made in a faerie kitchen.

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16. Sometimes the best toy is your imagination.

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17. When you need to rest your head, the only thing better than a pilow, is your dad!

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18. Make a funny face every day, you wll feel better.

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19. Hugs make souls smile.

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20. There is nothing wrong with needing a moment to warm up to a situation.

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21Some color outside the box, others color anywhere they please.

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Yes, there is something about Lily that draws people in.  Lily won’t need to spend countless hours studying eastern philosophies or pay top dollar for spiritual retreats to find her inner peace- she already has it. Everyone can sense it about her- everyone wants that for themselves. I want that. I strive to attain and hold onto what Lily has naturally. I believe that life is made up of lessons that serve to enhance my soul- Lily  holds my greatest and most sacred lesson. I am honored to receive it. I am beyond grateful to be her mother.

It’s All My Fault

It’s all my fault.

1 in almost 700 babies born in the United States have Down syndrome, the most common chromososmal condition.

In 90% of all nondisjunction trisonmy 21 cases, the extra chromosome comes from the egg, not the sperm.

My egg = My fault

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As the age of the mother increases, so does the chance of having a baby born with Down syndrome.

I  delivered Lily 13 days before my 35th birthday.  It’s my fault- I was older.

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Many decide to terminate their pregnancy when their baby is prenatally diagnosed with Down syndrome.

Lily was born December 2, 2011 because I chose not to end her life. It’s my fault she exists.

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Because of Lily, many women, men and children have been affected in a surprising and beautiful way. She leaves an imprint of joy and fearlessness on everyone who sees her. She is amazing, brave and boundless fun. She is a gift, a blessing. She is love.

And it’s ALL MY FAULT!

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